lisahakes52@hotmail.com asked 2 years ago
2leann answered 2 years ago
Thank you for sharing about your anxiety. I’d love to speak to this more on the call Tuesday. If you can come on then and talk about, it let’s do it.
A couple of thoughts and questions for you to think about:
Unfortunately we can’t control what daughter-in-laws do or what they think of us. You could do everything perfectly, and they still may not like you.
One of your models may look like this:
C: Family Function
T: My daughter-in-law doesn’t love me
F: anxious
A: I don’t sleep, I don’t enjoy myself, I don’t show up as my true self, I judge daughter-in-laws and myself, I ruminate about this
R: I don’t love me
What if you loved you and it didn’t matter what your daughter-in-laws thought or did?
What if it was okay if daughter-in-laws didn’t like you?
*I like to think of this like a piece of fruit. Not everyone likes peaches, and that’s not a problem unless we make it one. We don’t like everyone, and everyone doesn’t like us, and that is okay.
Let’s talk about this more Tuesday. If you can attend, and come on and discuss with me, that would be wonderful. If you're not available, please share more insight and I’ll speak to it there for you to catch on the recording.
So many can relate to this or something similar ~ thanks again for sharing for us all to learn from
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