Not a huge fan of Valentine’s Day?
Here are 3 ways to make the holiday you dread not a flop…
Welcome to Lovin My Daughter-in-law Podcast, where my mother-in-law, relationship expert and master certified coach, LeAnn Austin, will help you create more love and connection with your daughter-in-law and everyone else you care about.
Hey y’all, you’re listening to Lovin My Daughter-in-law, Episode #107: Valentine Flop – Maybe Not
Are you a big fan of Valentine’s Day? Some of you may be, and others, not so much. We’re not huge holiday celebrators around here, so I don’t get too into what I’m going to get or give on the holidays. Jeff will sometimes ask me if there’s something specific that I want, which is nice. And other times, I just go ahead and get what I’m wanting, which makes it easier for everyone, because sometimes I can be a little picky.
Some of you may be thinking Valentine’s Day is only for romantic relationships, but actually Valentines can be celebrated by anyone who wants to express their affection for someone special, regardless of their relationship status.
Valentine’s Day is a day for celebrating love, not just romantic love between couples. It’s a day to celebrate the love we have for our friends, our family members, and especially ourselves.
So, whatever your thoughts about Valentine’s Day, Mother’s Day, or any holiday that can sometimes be a flop, here are three ways to make it maybe not.
First, adjust your expectations. Sometimes our expectations for holidays are too high. Adjusting them and embracing the imperfections can lead to a more enjoyable experience.
Second, create new traditions. If traditional plans fall through, consider creating new traditions. This can make the holiday feel special in a different way.
And last, practice self care. Take care of yourself, both physically and emotionally. Do things that you enjoy, whether it’s reading a book, taking a walk, or watching a movie. Whatever you like to do. Take some time to do it and love on you.
Remember, holidays are about more than just specific plans. It’s an opportunity to appreciate the present moment, yourself, and the people around you. By adjusting your mindset and finding joy in different ways, you can turn an unexpected situation into a positive and memorable experience.
I heard this quote that I love. “Let this holiday be a time of joy, love, and connection, not a stress filled pursuit of perfection.” Hmmm, something to think about.
Have a good one y’all, and here’s to holidays and love.
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